Same shit, different day....

Now that all my son’s bad days are behind him, I am ready to kill him again.  I finally talked to someone at the paper office today, and sure enough, he has been missing one customer every day.   I am sure it is just that he is trying to learn the houses…..the lady at the paper place was a little short today about it though.  When I went and met her, she was super nice, so I do not know if she is just having a bad morning, or what, but he needs to correct this problem now.  It is just a matter of him memorizing the houses, which he thought he had, hence the one missing daily, mostly the same customer, so he did not remember that house.  Problem fixed easy enough, hopefully.  Then today, I asked him where his drop sheets are, and he informed me that he never takes them with him.  So I asked about where his garbage is, and he told me he just leaves it where he picks up his papers.  Really?  REALLY??  So, today, I made him go and collect it, and told him that I want to see that every single day, along with his drop sheets, so I can see if he is missing people or not, and to ensure that his garbage is getting to the garbage…..This better be the end of this problem, cuz I do not want to deal with that lady again!

Today I am on my way off to the doctor.  I see the doctor a lot, as I have a few chronic health problems, but today is different.  12 days ago, I got a cold.  Fair enough, I do not get those too often, but when I do, I get hit, and hard.  I had a fever and was super sick for the first four or five days….since then, I seem to be getting better except for one thing, my nose.  I can blow and blow and blow and it never, ever stops.  And it has killed my sense of smell and taste.  I mean, killed it.  I am so sad to have gone over a week without smelling or tasting anything.  And I mean ANYTHING.  I bought extra strong mint halls, which normally I cannot even handle, and I might as well have been sucking on a button.  Its maddening.  I just want to be able to taste something, anything.  I miss food.  I do not even want to eat certain things, cuz I almost feel like I am wasting it.  Now, here is the biggest piss off to this problem.  Two weeks ago, I had plans with a friend to go to Red Lobster for dinner, I had to cancel as something came up.  Actually, it kinda pisses me off, cuz that thing that came up was also postponed to the next day, so we could have gone for dinner.  Anyway, then I got sick, so we decided to wait, and then this week I told her, we would go next week, as I am not able to taste anything.  Well, I saw a facebook update today that said that the promotion we were going to enjoy (festival of shrimp) ends on Thursday…..so, now we have planned to go Thursday, and I am going to pray I can taste some of it, or I am gonna be livid. 

At this point, I am kinda assuming I have a sinus infection or something, and need antibiotics.  I just hope whatever she gives me will make me feel better fast.  I am so sick of being sick!  There is a small deli across the street from the DR office too, and sometimes when I go, I will have lunch there and read a book, have some alone time that I crave more often than I get it, but it’s rather pointless when I cannot taste the food.  And I am so sick of blowing my nose!  I must own shares in the Kleenex company by now!  I have been using the ones with Vicks in them, not that I would be able to tell by smell.  I actually rubbed Vicks all over my nose and under it, and I could not tell at all, might as well have been Vaseline.  I would love to be able to smell again too! 

That is really all for today, there is so much more I could write about, but will have to wait for next time, as I must get ready to see the DR…..I will, however, leave you with a Top Ten for the week, as it has been a while since I did that.

Top Ten Things That Piss Me Off

Racists

Homophobes

Republicans

Stupid Laws or Lack Thereof A Law When Needed (i.e. Cannabis Prohibition or No Law To Protect Homosexuals Against Discrimination In Certain States)

Child Abuse

Animal Abuse

Greed

Judgmental People

Two Faced People

Unnecessary Drama

Unknown Sister

Another blog full of random topics

What a week, what a week.  Life is never boring around here, that is for sure.   Tonight I am gonna try and take it easy a bit.  I went out with A for lunch today, as we were both off work, so tonight I am just gonna make dinner, and watch a few shows, while I get my shopping list (ad matching) ready for the weekend.  I am gonna have to pick up a few Easter treats for the kids this weekend too, as I will go shopping after Easter morning next time.  I cannot believe that Easter is so close!  Easter is my favorite holiday of all!  This whole time of year, I just LOVE it.  I know that most people get like this over Christmas, and not too many people even see the big deal in Easter, but I am kinda the other way.  Christmas is nice and all, but it’s WAY too much of a commercialized spectacle.   Too many people forget that it is about the birth of Christ.  And if you are not a Christian, what the hell are you even celebrating??  Drives me batty.  Anyway, my point is, I LOVE Easter, we always have a huge celebration, and love to indulge in all those Lenten sacrifices that we have missed for the last 40 days.  This year seems to be a tad quiet, some years we have lots of people over, sometimes it just us.  So, this year, it will be me, my partner (D), the two kids, and then my second partner (O), and his two kids…..should be a nice quiet family holiday.  Must buy a turkey and some goat this weekend for Easter dinner, and supplies for a nice dessert fondue.  O calls himself my second husband (even though I am not married to anyone, and am gay)…so that is why I called him my second partner here.  He does everything for me, does things for my kids, fixes things, takes me out…..he just does not get bedroom benefits, LOL.  He is a pretty awesome guy though.  He is one of my best friends.  My Brethren.

I only watched one movie this past week.  I am a film buff for sure, I LOVE movies, and try and get at least one a week in, but don’t always have time.  I watched ‘The Experiment’ on Sunday.  It was a pretty good movie.  Great cast, good story.  Loosely based on the Stanford Experiments.  If you don’t know what that is, read here:

 Wiki Article

Video 

The movie starred Adrien Brody, Forest Whitaker, Maggie Grace, Fisher Stevens and Ethan Cohn.  It was a remake of a German film called ‘Das Experiment’.  Well worth the watch....esp if you are into either prison movies as a pastime, or prison scenes as a fetish. 

I am hoping to catch a couple more movies in the upcoming weeks, like Scream 4, Insidious, and maybe even Arthur.  I am hoping to see one over the weekend, and perhaps another one Tuesday night (cheap night, only $4.25 a movie).....

Prison scenes can be very interesting in movies.  I have never done one in real life, per se, but I do like interrogation at times as well.  It’s strange, cuz I would say that I don’t like role play, but this is different, its not like I am pretending to be someone I am not....I am just setting my slave up for something.....I don’t dress in a uniform or anything, that is what I think is silly. 

In the next week or so, I am going to have a session with a girl I have been playing with on and off for several years.  I am not in a ‘relationship’ with her, but I do see her from time to time.....mostly for a BDSM session....once in a while for an EpiCure party, LOL.  she got herself into some trouble with me, some pretty serious trouble, she has never done that before.  I am chatting with her now, she is having a hard time with the whole situation.  her ex husband thinks its great, he is enjoying know that she is in big trouble.  Sounds like he needs some help with his slave as well.  I don’t mind mentoring a fellow Dom/me, we all have to learn somewhere.  Besides, I have done it a few times, and it can be kinda fun too.....

Well, I guess that is about all for tonight, it is rather late, and I still want to have a bite to eat and finish watching Parenthood.  I know these blogs are kinda random, but I am hoping that is why some of you love it.....the next few blogs you have to look forward to are, my savings on this weekend’s shopping trip, my session with that girl, and if I decide to pick up mentoring her ex, and Easter Sunday, a big celebration.......and with that, I will leave you with a Top Ten, since I did not make it one Tuesday.....

Top Ten Websites I Use

Facebook

Fetlife

Youtube

Wikipedia

CNN

Blogger

Save.ca

Brandsaver.ca

Websaver.ca

GoCoupons.ca

BTW, I just want to point out for those of you that are confused, and I know you are out there....it IS possible to be religious AND kinky.  My relationship with God is personal, and has nothing to do with my sex life.  I LOVE my God, and I love Jesus Christ.  I am a sexual person, and I don’t think God would have made something so beautiful if we were not supposed to enjoy it.  I am not hurting anyone (unless they allow me to, lol), and everything is between two loving, consenting adults.  

Unknown Sister

Lazy Days

Today was so lazy, I didn’t get anything done that I wanted to.  I basically fucked around all morning online, and then a friend called that was playing hooky from work and we went out for lunch.  Now I am making a video on Xtranormal about customers that are insane and drive people nuts.  I saw one today that was a Starbucks video, and it made me laugh forever, so I thought I could write one of my own.  Then off to make the kids some dinner and watch Parenthood tonight, I love that show.   I have finally picked up a few followers via the blog hop.  Hopefully will have more soon.  It’s hard when you first start a new blog to have people find you, especially when you are going for private followers that you do not actually know.  I know this blogs taste is not for everyone, but I am hoping to find people that can appreciate my point of view and humor.  Also readers that have some of the same interests as me, I say some and not all, as it is a pretty wide variety…..

I worked doing customer service for over a decade, and really enjoy it for the most part.  But sometimes customers can be ridiculous, and that is what the video is about.  So, I am going to spend my time today making that instead of writing here….so I hope you enjoy!  When I have it done (which could take a while), I will post it here….for now, please enjoy the Starbucks one I found so funny.

Stupid Starbucks Customer - Please leave a comment and let me know what you think.....

Oh yes, one more thing, TOP TEN TUESDAY:

Ten Shows I Loved That Got Cancelled Way Too Early

Better Off Ted

LOST

Sons Of Tucson

Dirty Sexy Money

The Mole

Fear Itself

Whose Line Is It Anyway

Thank God, You’re Here

Monk  (They never played the last season in Canada, which I am now going to have to find elsewhere)

Da' Kink In My Hair

Unknown Sister

Life will calm down next week....I think....

Once again, it is time for Top Ten Tuesday......and once again, I have no new blog to view....but I am PRETTY sure that life will slow down slightly in the next week......I have been working on a new blog for a few days, and pretty expressive and heartfelt one...hopefully I dont offend too many people...but then again, I dont care, that is why I am here, to speak my mind, and do I ever....




I am hoping to have the new blog up Sunday morning at the latest....but it might be before that....in the meantime, here is this weeks top ten to tide you all over....

Top Ten Movies I Hate

Black Swan

The Fourth Kind

The Devil's Rejects

Legion

10,000 B.C.

Turistas

The Black Dahlia

The Hills Have Eyes

Eternal Sunshine Of The Spotless Mind

Lost In Translation

Unknown Sister

Top Ten Tuesday

So sorry I didn't have time to write a blog this week, but at least wanted to drop the top ten for the week....hope everyone is wonderful, will write a new post in a couple of days.....

Top Ten Movies I Love

 
Monster
 
Unfaithful
 
Brokeback Mountain
 
Hostel 2
 
If These Walls Could Talk 2
 
American Wedding

Bent

Hard Candy

The Blind Side

Hannibal Rising



Unknown Sister

What's up out there? Top Ten Tuesday....

Hello again out there.....

This last week has been eventful, but fun.  Saturday I had a poker party for my birthday, and it was much fun.  Although, most of my friends run on CP time (coloured people time), so even though I said dinner at 6pm, I still had people arriving up to 8pm.  We had a bite to eat, well, a few bites, lol...and smoked a couple of blunts, and played a few games of cards.  My one friend’s DIL even made me cupcakes decorated like the Italia flag!  That made my night.  I was slightly worried beforehand, as there was tons of drama the day or two before the party, lasting right up to the afternoon of, but once we got started, it was all smooth sailing, thank God.  This is the group of people I call my ghetto framily. Framily means, more than friends, not quite family.  Although, there are a few I would consider straight up family. 

I don’t have much natural family.  I have two children, one birth child, and one adopted.  I have one sister that I speak with, but she lives far into the states, and we are not all that close.  I have three other siblings, but I don’t know, or care to know, where they are.  That is a topic for another blog.  Both my parents are deceased, my father way too soon, my mother, not soon enough.  I have some family that lives pretty close to me, one city over, but my mother made sure she killed that relationship before she died.  I chat with one or two of them on facebook from time to time, but that is about it.  The framily I  have is way closer to me than those.  Sometimes I feel pretty alone in the world.  Most times, I love to be alone, but the world is a big place.  I have a partner, that is wonderful, but we have a complicated relationship. In this blog, I call him D2.  He would do anything for me, as I would him, and he listens very well, lol.  He says he cannot live without me and even though I identify as a lesbian, I love him very much, just not that way he wants.....

In the last few years, I have lost a few friends as well, one I truly miss, but she hurt me deeply.  The other four, I think my life is easier and less stressful without and although at times I miss them for certain things they did, overall, I do not regret for ten seconds they are gone.   I also have several friends left from grade school.  You don’t see that too often, but I have about five that I talk to on a regular basis and another five or so I see a few times a year.  I have one close friend that I have been through lots with, I call her R.  I love her like a sister.  I want to send her a card this week telling her how much I love her and miss her.  We have had two totally different lives, in every way you can think, but that never torn us apart. 

I think this week I will also write a letter to Buju.  I know he probably gets tons a day, but given his current situation, he doesn’t have much else to do.  I hope he is keeping well.  I know its kinda strange to be so invested in someone I don’t actually know, but his music has been with me for the last 15+ years, and at times, has carried me through a lot. 

Well, I must get on with my day, I have a few jobs I want to do, before going to the movies tonight with my kids, to see Hall Pass.  On that note, I will leave you with this weeks Top Ten Tuesday:

Top Ten Books I Love

The Book Of Negroes

Gone, But Not Forgotten

Exit To Eden

Here’s The Deal, Don’t Touch Me

The Green Mile

A Child Called “It”

Michelle Remembers

The Perfect Victim

Slow Death

Are You There Alone?: The Unspeakable Crime of Andrea Yates

Unknown Sister

Who Am I & Top Ten Tuesday

Who am I?  That is the question that has a million answers.  

I am a mother.  

I am a movie buff.  

I am a sadistic Domme.   

I am a coupon clipper.   

I am a cook.  

I am a pot head.  

I am a Catholic.  

I am a lesbian.  

I am polyamorous.  

I could go on and on and on.  I will talk about all these things over the course of this blog.  You might find reading this that from time to time, I sound a lot like a man.  Or so I have been told over the course of my life 750 000 times……even though I admit that I am very male thinking, I assure you all that I am 100% female, just not 100% woman, lol.  My ex D used to call me Man all the time, thinking it was an insult.  I have female friends that depend on me for a male point of view.  Funny, cuz in other areas of my life, I would say I am very female.  Being a mother is my number one thing in my life, and I am not handy around the house at all, that is why I keep men around, hehe.    Men are handy for  a LOT of things.  As much as I love and prefer woman on a sexual  level, I would not want to give up everything a man can do for me.  For a long time, I used to think I was bisexual….which, ironically, I don’t even believe exists anymore.   That is a topic for another blog though, that is for sure. 

I have seen at least two people have read my posts….that is a start, I guess…..I have just gotten started myself, gotta start somewhere I guess.  My birthday is right around the corner, I am going to be 35 this year….man, where does the time go….it’s hard to believe that I am approaching middle age, and have teenagers…..how did that happen?  Don’t get me wrong, I love life, and it’s been quite a journey, but too fast!  I cannot say I miss having a baby or anything, cuz that would be a lie for sure, but I might miss having a five year old sometimes, they are so much easier to please than a teenager.  Outside is snowy and cold, and I hate this time of year as well.  Why couldn’t I be born in the summer when the weather is nice?   My friends were desperately trying to get me to go to a bar this past weekend, and I was so not into it, I am SO glad I cancelled too, esp since my weekend ended up being crazy and I was insanely sleep deprived.  When I was younger, there were several years that I practically lived at the bar, or bars, I should say.  There was a small group of us that you could find at the club every weekend, and another couple friends that I used to party with during the week even.  We would travel up to two or more hours for the right party or club, and man, we got ourselves into some jams along the way, that is for sure.  I had one crazy friend named J that would always be great for a night out, but also, could get us in SO much trouble.  I will have to write more about that sometime, I have a few stories that I am sure would be good for some laughs, and then some. 

I guess I should get going to bed….I will leave you with the first top ten list.  I am going to try and post one every Tuesday, until I run out of ideas anyway….so, here is the very first Top Ten Tuesday:

Top Ten TV Show I Love

Random Order

Queer As Folk

Law And Order SVU

Dexter

Saturday Night Live

Parenthood

Modern Family

Oz

Sopranos

Big Brother

Nurse Jackie

Until next time………

Unknown Sister


P.S.  For the two readers that left comments and now do not see them here, I apologize.  I was in the mailbox for this blog, and deleted the comments, thinking I was deleting them from the mailbox only, not the blog itself....still learning my way around here, please do not let it stop you from leaving more comments, they are always welcome.....